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When people first suspect that their spouse is cheating, they struggle with their own feelings of disbelieve.  It never feels right to doubt the words of someone who should be your greatest ally.  Our feelings of disbelieve are often the direct result of a past experience, and the suspicion that your spouse has the capacity to be unfaithful.

As difficult as it may be, it is always good to trust your instincts.  The inner-voice you hear may be a wake-up call to finally open your eyes and come to terms with what you already know.  Does your suspicion that you are in a relationship with a cheating spouse affect you to your core?  Do you find yourself snooping through personal records to find some form of evidence to support your wariness?

There are specific things you should look for, and some specific places you should look if you want to find evidence of cheating.  

By checking the credit card bills - Look for charges to hotels, florists and boutiques - anywhere your spouse might have bought a gift.  Then match the bills to the calendar; could the gifts have been for you?  If not, this is a good clue.

By checking their wallets, their pockets and the glove box in the car - look for credit card receipts, particularly from restaurants and hotels.  Also look for phone numbers that you don't recognize.

By checking their cell phone bill - look for phone numbers that you don't recognize and check the times of the calls.  For instance, if he calls one number regularly during his commute, or any other time you're not around, that might be an important number.  If you decide to call the numbers you suspect, do so from a pay phone so that your caller id is not recorded.  Don't say anything when you call; just see if you recognize the voice of the person who answers.  Very often, he's seeing someone both of you know.

By checking their odometer - if they have been somewhere in the car, check the odometer before and after the trip to see if the mileage correlates to where they says they have been.

By keeping your eyes and ears open - listen for inconsistencies in what they tell you.  But, don't ask too many questions or they might suddenly stop talking.

By checking their emails - check the deleted mail folder, too.  They may have deleted their emails as soon as they have read them.

By checking the cache on your Internet browser  - your web browser can show you the websites that have been visited recently.  Looking at these can give you lots of clues.  If they have been visiting the websites of vacation resorts, and the two of you are not planning a vacation, for instance.  Or, you can see if they have been visiting dating or porn websites.

By smelling their clothes - detect a perfume that's not yours?  It's an old trick, but look for lipstick on the collar, too.

By looking at his clothes - if they suddenly have new clothes, new underwear in particular, it may be a sign that someone new is seeing them, or even picking them out.

Remember that very often our instincts are true.  If you think something is wrong in your relationship, you're probably right.  However, that doesn't necessarily mean your spouse is cheating.  If you suspect infidelity, keep your cool.  It's important not to let your spouse know that you suspect him if you want to find concrete evidence.  If he thinks you're on to him, he will be more careful, making it more difficult for the private investigators to catch him.

It's wise not to confront your spouse with your suspicions until you are absolutely sure.  If you're wrong, you may have seriously damaged your marriage.  It's also wise not to assume that your spouse is having an affair just because you're having one.  Very often, unfaithful spouses ease their guilt by assuming their spouse is as guilty as they are.

Infidelity is a serious issue.  If you suspect your spouse is cheating, be emotionally prepared to deal with the truth when you find it.  Decide if you believe that your marriage is worth saving.  You may even want to start counseling on your own before you confront your spouse in order to make the confrontation easier to handle.  This is a difficult time in your life, so it's important to prepare for the outcome, so that no matter what happens, you can take care of yourself.

All Tech Investigations LLC can help you get the proof that you need to get to the truth.  You can rest assured that we are well accustomed to the complicated, sensitive and sometimes dangerous aspect involved in divorce and infidelity investigations.  Knowing the truth can protect your future interest, your health or simply give you peace of mind.  Hiring All Tech Investigations LLC to document your significant other's infidelity may be beneficial in your divorce (if married) settlement as well.

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What to Expect in an Infidelity Investigation:

Investigating a cheating husband or cheating wife is a delicate matter.  An important decision has to be made regarding the type of investigation that you are looking for. Are you simply looking for peace of mind to confirm your suspicions, or are you seeking evidence of an extramarital affair for court purposes?  If you are simply trying to confirm that your spouse is involved in a marital infidelity then this type of investigation will be cheaper.  Instead of having to prove the case to reach the standards of a court hearing, we can document your spouse's activities.  

As an example, if your spouse says they are going to the gym or a friend's house, we can document where they actually go.  This saves you time and money.  If you are trying to prove infidelity to prove fault on the part of your spouse for the purpose of gaining an advantage in court, then we need to take extra steps to fully document our findings for trial purposes.  Additionally, you may need to document more activity of an extramarital affair to satisfy the standards of a trail.  You will need to prove in most cases that they were more than just "friends".  This is usually accomplished by documenting public displays of affection and their spending time together.

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